This is kinda a hard article for me to write to the general public but I need to clear the energy of guilt and to make mends to all the women I have not treated properly regarding intimacy.

My upbringing taught me to selfishly pursue a woman for sexual pleasure with a block in my mind that there is a difference regarding just the act of sex and the act of making love. Women are way more in tune with making love than men regarding sex and making love.

A woman will put lovemaking before they just want to have sex for pleasure and lust. Men usually just want to get off and struggle with making that connection of lovemaking because of the excitement of pleasure because men are very visually stimulated and women more mentally stimulated.

I understand the difference but applications are another thing. I am still learning about the difference between sex and making love because it’s not something I ever understood regarding my upbringing because I was never taught the difference between Intimacy and sex and know how to find the balance of making love and having sex.

I understand that woman want both regarding the season ? but men often just want sex and end up being selfish in a state of lust so they end up stimulated while the woman is left unsatisfied because they usually take their time with sex and intimacy and men just blow through the process ?

Geez! even right now I’m struggling with being authentic and vulnerable because this is going on record but f**k it I have to clear the guilt and shame of how I treated woman I was in love within a relationship of my past because I failed in this department because I let lust get in the way of true intimacy they deserved, and I was selfish in the excitement, and I made them feel like a sexual object rather than a queen that should have been pampered in the sensual feeling of love, rather then the sex being one-sided making it for me and not for us!

I believe that I will learn how to balance the difference between making love and having sex because in all reality when both parties are in a state of the higher self that’s what both want anyways.

Men have been so programmed in a state of lust when it comes to intimacy and it will take time to break that conditioning but I will be the man to stand up and admit I have been programmed and I still have to learn the difference because just because I am woke and I am learning what love really is in my awaking state doesn’t mean the application is there, but I know it will be learned when the time is right because I am a TRYING man in a state of progressing because perfection the way we understand it doesn’t exist working through the karma and programming of society that has been so far removed from true love and nature.

I think we all have to work together and talk about these things in relationships and to be vulnerable and humble about it without hurting each other and making each other feel guilty. If you love each other try not to be stuck in expectations because this usually happens due to the lack of communication and vulnerability.

Woman teach your man the difference and the one that is right for you will listen and make an effort to learn because most men don’t apply the difference even if they know the difference of sex and making love because they have been programmed in lust even though they may have good intentions and a good heart.

This is not always a gender issue as well some women are more masculine regarding there astrology and the man more feminine and the man knows how to make love and the woman doesn’t because they just want to get off in lust haha. This is rare but it does exist.

The goal I believe is to learn how to connect better energetically with more sensual lovemaking, and know when to get wild and sexual and learn how to know when to take it slow and take time and to just make love. It’s a ying-yang and I think men and women are different in the act of sex and this is to learn to please and compromise mutually and that’s why relationships take work and when built on understanding you will not be left hurt with expectations.

I will pick on the men and myself because it’s true men can be the most selfish when it comes to sex, and I know I have my whole life but what I do know is that I will break the programming and it will start with being authentic to the reality of how I was programmed from my upbringing but shit I’m growing and learning in this state of waking up and learning how to activate the higher self that understands true love and is learning what is from ego and selfish ambition, and I will learn to master these things with time because my goal is to love better and to be less selfish!

Get back to nature my friends, get back to a diet that your biological design to eat, tap into your intuitive Consciousness, let your instincts guide you, live in the present moment, and I promise you my friends you will thrive!

Written by Jonathon RA Stearns AKA the Mangotarian

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